This site is maintained by Sherrie Battle McGhee with assistance from webs.com
This website is a memorial to the life of US Army
Cpl. Ryan Casey McGhee 21, of Fredericksburg, Virginia.
Ryan was assigned to the 3rd Battalion, 75th Ranger Regiment, Fort Benning, GA and gave his life for all of us on May 13, 2009 from wounds sustained when his unit came in contact with enemy forces while conducting combat operations in Tikrit, Iraq.
"GREATER LOVE HATH NO MAN THAN THIS, THAT HE LAY DOWN HIS LIFE FOR HIS FRIENDS..." - JOHN 15:13
I will be the answer, at the end of the line
I will be there for you, while you take the time
In the burning of uncertainty, I will be your solid ground
I will hold the balance, If you can't look down...
- Taken for the song "The Answer" by Sarah McLachlan
Ryan's gravesite, March 2012... The final resting place of a young man with a very loyal heart and soul
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There is nowhere you will ever go where your mom's prayers for you have not already been...
Ryan with his Gold Star mom, Sherrie, after his graduation from Massaponax High School in 2006. Sherrie's trust turned this site from an idea to a reality...
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At Christmas, all roads lead home...
- Marjorie Holmes
The Christmas Blanket placed at Ryan's gravesite, December 2011 is from Ryan's mom. The wreath against Ryan's headstone was placed courtesy of Wreaths Across America.
That motto "Ranger's Lead the Way" is just so timeless....
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The Ranger Tab is a service school military decoration of the United States Army signifying completion of the 61-day long Ranger School course in small-unit infantry combat tactics in woodland, mountain, and swamp operations.
Those graduating from Ranger School are presented with the Ranger Tab, which is worn on the upper shoulder of the left sleeve of a military uniform, as specified in Army Regulation 670–1, " Wear and Appearance of Army Uniforms and Insignia." Wearing the tab is permitted for the remainder of a soldier's military career. The cloth version of the tab is worn on the Army Combat Uniform and Class-A dress uniform of the U.S. Army; a smaller, metal version is worn on the new Army Service Uniform.
It is currently ONE OF ONLY FOUR permanent individual skill/marksmanship tabs authorized for wear by the U.S. Army.
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"These are men who responded to a different voice..."
- General John Mulholland, Army Special Operations Command
Ryan was among 30 U.S. Army Special Operations soldiers whose names were added to the Fallen Special Operations Soldier Memorial Wall at Fort Bragg. In attendance at the 5/26/11 ceremony were Former presidential candidate Ross Perot, actor Gary Sinise, Ryan's Gold Star mom, and many other Gold Star families.
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Airborne Rangers are brothers who share a bond the average person will NEVER understand...
- Found on airborne-ranger.com, an unofficial site
Courage is not the absence of fear but rather the judgment that something is more important than fear...
- Unknown
The new 3rd Battalion Ranger Memorial at Ft. Benning, GA (top picture) and Ryan's pavers at the memorial (bottom pictures)
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Autumn is a second spring when every leaf is a flower...
A flower cannot blossom without sunshine, nor can a child without his mother's love
The bouquet placed at his gravesite on 11/4/11, which would have been his 24th birthday
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"You don't raise heroes, you raise sons. And if you treat them like sons,
they'll turn out to be heroes, in my eyes, your eyes, and everyone's eyes..."
- Walter Schirra
The Ranger Wall of Fame is dedicated to the Fallen Ranger Heroes from all 3 Ranger Battalions. Ryan's picture hangs along with Cpl. Pat Tillman's on
the Wall of Fame at Ft. Benning, GA. Ryan always looked up to the work ethic and toughness that Pat displayed in his football career and, of course,
Ryan shared Pat's commitment to the Ranger Creed. It is poignant and very fitting that Ryan shares a memorial with Cpl. Pat Tillman, because
Pat was Ryan's hero...
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Our days are numbered. One of the primary goals in our lives should be to prepare for our last day. The legacy we leave is not in our possessions, but in the quality of our lives, what we live for, and what we are willing to die for...
Ryan's mom Sherrie, Luke Ryan Gudel (named in honor of Ryan) and Ryan' good friend, Sgt Jackson Gudel. Luke is one of four babies named in Ryan's honor...
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"The only thing you take with you when you're gone is what you leave behind..."
- John Allston
Ryan's mom Sherrie and Ryan Scott Harmon, son of Cpl Jarratt Harmon and Stacey Harmon. Jarratt wanted to honor Ryan (McGhee), who was his Team Leader.
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Sometimes, no matter how much faith we have, we lose people. But you never forget them...
And sometimes, it's those memories that give us the faith to go on...

A man of courage is also full of faith...
- Marcus Tullius Cicero
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All the great things are simple, and many can be expressed in a single word... like - freedom, bravery, and honor...
- Winston Churchill
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"I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something;
and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something I can do..."
- E. Everett Hale

Ryan's mom, Ranger Cory Smith, and Cory's mom Ruth... Cory is running (and biking) 560 miles from Ft Benning, GA
to his home in Indianapolis, IN to bring awareness to veterans transitioning into civilian life. If you look
closely at Cory's right wrist, you'll notice he's wearing Ryan's KIA bracelet... The irony is - Cory had been
wearing this bracelet since the beginning of his run, BEFORE he and Ryan's mom ever met...
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Struggle seems like a never ending process... FREEDOM is earned and won in every generation...
- C.S. King

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"I am deeply moved to have been asked to participate in this absolutely necessary memorial, I can only hope that my participation will help draw attention to the cause and ensure its successful fruition as the nation's first and only such tribute built specifically to these courageous men and women..."
- Gary Sinise
For the past 20 years, actor Gary Sinise has been very active in supporting the troops and military families. After speaking at the Fallen Special Operations Memorial ceremony, Gary signed Ryan's pictures (in the Memorial Program) as a tribute to both Ryan and Ryan's mom, Sherrie.
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"These kids join to fight for The United States of America and all the patriotic terms... But they die for their friends next to them..."
- John Phelps, Gold-Star father
Ryan's mom with SFC Kirk Foster. SFC Foster, with the assistance of other Rangers, was instrumental in moving Ryan to safety the night he died. Foster and other Rangers were wounded by grenade shrapnel while performing their sworn duty: TO NEVER LEAVE A BROTHER BEHIND!
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"Be willing to be uncomfortable. Be comfortable being uncomfortable. It may get tough, but it's a small price to pay for living a dream..."
Ryan with his RANGER TAB certificate. Ranger School isn't called "61 days of Hell" because it's easy...
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